The Four S's-Spill

Blabbergirls live by the Four S's: Study, Spill, Sleep, and all the other Stuff.

I do not imply that telling secrets are just OK. Come on, if you have a best-friend or family member, and she/he is counting on you to keep it to yourself.That is the right thing to do. There are times when it is safe.

Some questions for you to ponder

1.Do you really need to tell it?
2.Is it a life or death situation?

3.Will someone die if you don’t tell the secret?
4.Are you involved in the secret? (The secret is about you and another person, because you have done something really wrong-you bad girl!)

5.Is it necessary to share the secret because you will not be able to convey the information properly without it?

6.Do you trust the person whom you’re telling the secret?
7.Has the person broken your trust before? If yes, how many times and how severe?
8.Has the person ever told you a secret about someone? If yes, why did he/she tell it to you?
9.How is the person related to the person who the secret is about? Are they friends or family?

10.Do you think that telling the secret is for something good?

11.Who does it benefit? Me? The person I’m telling the secret to? Or is it the person that’s in the secret?
12.What will the result be? Is it real significant?
13.Will the person involved in the secret forgive you for telling this secret?

If you answer YES to any of the questions in 1, 2, 3, or 4 then it is considered ok to tell that secret.

Lesson: Do you love the computer? I do I am on all the time. I am very afraid of viruses, worms, and spyware they ruin everything. A Blabbergirl spills in safe mode like a computer, who wants a virus in their life total loss of friendships and lives. Sticking to "Friendly Spills" Beans, Green, Polish, and Gossip, makes for Trojan free.

P.S. My bathroom flooded with water on Thanksgiving. Special shout out, Thank you Whataburger! Can you believe they were open for allowing my family to use your bathrooms this holiday. Lovely!